American speaker asks school pupils to 'pay it forward'

Charley Johnson with pupils from Wycombe High School Charley Johnson with pupils from Wycombe High School

HUNDREDS of pupils gathered on Wednesday lunchtime in Wycombe High School’s main hall to listen to a former American businessman speak passionately about random acts of kindness – a cause to which he is devoting his life.

Charley Johnson, a 32 year old from Utah, USA, is the president of ‘Pay it Forward’ and is visiting England to promote the foundation’s message of kind deeds as a force for good.

Mr Johnson has created a bracelet which can be given away to someone you have helped as a way to encourage them to help others.

"Pay it Forward is doing something nice for someone and asking for nothing in return," Mr Johnson explains.

"The only thing you are asking them in return is to do something nice for something else."

His association with the foundation only began recently.

Previously, together with his cousin he owned a successful business.

He acknowledges he had all the money and security he could ever wish for, yet was profoundly unhappy.

"It didn’t feel right that all I should be doing was making money by any means necessary.

"I did not want to wake up in the morning or go to work.

"I had to wipe away the tears."

The Utah native agonised for a couple of years over whether to quit his job before finally deciding last April to commit himself wholeheartedly to Pay it Forward.

He was inundated with job opportunities but couldn’t bring himself to sign the contract, instead immersing himself in his new role as president of PIF.

He admits the past 12 months have been challenging but has no regrets about quitting his lucrative job.

He said: "The past year has been the scariest year.

"I’ve experienced every feeling: no security, no idea what’s next, no hope for the future and thinking what have I just done, to now speaking to schools all over the globe."

"It just feels right that I left."

Mr Johnson was impressed by the High School and the attitude of its pupils.

He said: "It is an amazing school, like a huge community college campus and everyone seems nice.

"Hopefully the message sinks in but it seems like it does.

"All the girls wanted more bracelets and seemed to have smiles on their faces.

"With PIF if we can give these kids something good to do it’s just so much more powerful than getting up in front of them and saying don’t do this, don’t do that."

Sharon Cromie, the school’s headteacher, was delighted to welcome Mr Johnson to the school and thrilled with the big turnout for his talk.

She said: "As part of our curriculum and our offering we talk about kindness and citizenship and really doing the right thing so when we became aware this was an international movement we were very keen to be a part of it."

"This is lunchtime and the girls are here of their own volition so it speaks volumes that we had so many here interested."

Mr Johnson’s talk certainly seemed to have an impact on those in attendance.

Kike Oludemi, a pupil at the school, said: "I thought it was a really interesting topic, doing stuff for other people to spread goodness.

"His message was quite powerful and I thought it was quite a good one because there was no ulterior motive, like buy my book." "I think if more people catch on to this it could be quite a big thing."

Another pupil, Tigs Knowles, added: "I will hand out bracelets and I think everyone at the talk will because they understand and see how inspirational it is."

Mr Johnson feels PIF is a cause everyone can instantly become involved with.

He explains: "The big thing is a lot of people, when they say they want to get involved with something, are given a set plan of what they should do and are given a PDF.

"To get involved with us you just do what you feel is right.

"Do what you think is nice to the person you just crossed paths with.

"If you want to get involved you can do so immediately by making someone smile."

Mr Johnson will be speaking at Naphill & Walter's Ash Primary school nect week.

PIF are holding a series of flash mobs next Wednesday at 4pm to raise awareness for the foundation, with gatherings scheduled to take place in Trafalgar Square and outside Marks and Spencer in the Eden Centre.

If you want to find out more about Pay it Forward you can find videos and testimonials on their website, PIF experience.org

Comments(13)

Marmite XO says...
9:12am Sat 24 Mar 12

This article has really disturbed me. Are schools welcoming in dangerous cult leaders as part of the curriculum these days? Shocking.

dtap says...
9:33am Sat 24 Mar 12

Mmm, sounds as though he`s a karmic advocate of some sort. Marmite XO, do you know that he actually is a "cult leader" ? It does, I can`t deny, all sound a little creepy...

Graculus says...
10:28am Sat 24 Mar 12

so just because this guy is American and is advocating something that involves being altruistic to others for no reward, this makes him a creepy cult leader? "One good turn deserves another..." etc. this is hardly a radical new idea.

Long live the good old British sceptic. *sighs*

dtap says...
10:35am Sat 24 Mar 12

Graculus wrote:
so just because this guy is American and is advocating something that involves being altruistic to others for no reward, this makes him a creepy cult leader? "One good turn deserves another..." etc. this is hardly a radical new idea. Long live the good old British sceptic. *sighs*
You assume I automatically mistrust Americans? Not at all, despite our constant importation of so much West Coast - style psychobabble into our workplaces, and now, clearly, schools. I do heartily agree with you, however, on one point: "Long live the good old British sceptic" Indeed; Amen to that.

The SURGEON says...
3:06pm Sat 24 Mar 12

This seems an excellent idea - let a proponent of mind control from Utah (AKA 'nutjob central') just waltz into our schools and start bribing impressionable young girls with free bracelets. Interesting that only girls attended this brainwashing session - I wonder if that was written into the contract. Perhaps someone could ask one of his eight teenage wives?

dtap says...
3:30pm Sat 24 Mar 12

The SURGEON wrote:
This seems an excellent idea - let a proponent of mind control from Utah (AKA 'nutjob central') just waltz into our schools and start bribing impressionable young girls with free bracelets. Interesting that only girls attended this brainwashing session - I wonder if that was written into the contract. Perhaps someone could ask one of his eight teenage wives?
Forgive my ignorance, but may one assume from your inferences that there is a distinct Mormon connection here?

andy40 says...
8:24am Sun 25 Mar 12

The SURGEON wrote:
This seems an excellent idea - let a proponent of mind control from Utah (AKA 'nutjob central') just waltz into our schools and start bribing impressionable young girls with free bracelets. Interesting that only girls attended this brainwashing session - I wonder if that was written into the contract. Perhaps someone could ask one of his eight teenage wives?
Why is it interesting that only girls attended a lunchtime talk at an all-girls school? Seems pretty mundane to me.

geoffW says...
9:36am Sun 25 Mar 12

There are plenty of people/organisations in this country that have the same or similar message. Where is the need for a school to import this sort of thing from a different country and culture?
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I would be interesting to know who approached who in organising this event.
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I notice that he is off to a primary school next. WHY?

dtap says...
12:25pm Sun 25 Mar 12

It`s not at all comfortable, is it? The Surgeon suggests a Utah connection - so is this a Mormon - based incursion?

The SURGEON says...
6:44pm Sun 25 Mar 12

andy40 wrote:
The SURGEON wrote:
This seems an excellent idea - let a proponent of mind control from Utah (AKA 'nutjob central') just waltz into our schools and start bribing impressionable young girls with free bracelets. Interesting that only girls attended this brainwashing session - I wonder if that was written into the contract. Perhaps someone could ask one of his eight teenage wives?
Why is it interesting that only girls attended a lunchtime talk at an all-girls school? Seems pretty mundane to me.
I didn't expect it to take long for Charley Johnson's hired goons to create accounts on this website to start addressing any comments relating to his sinister mission, and lo and behold...

I imagine 'Andy40' was one of the 5 or 6 goons in suits and shades who filmed me doing my shopping all day yesterday. Then spent all night playing music at full volume through my letterbox. I will NOT be broken.

u5r23 says...
8:07pm Sun 25 Mar 12

The SURGEON wrote:
andy40 wrote:
The SURGEON wrote:
This seems an excellent idea - let a proponent of mind control from Utah (AKA 'nutjob central') just waltz into our schools and start bribing impressionable young girls with free bracelets. Interesting that only girls attended this brainwashing session - I wonder if that was written into the contract. Perhaps someone could ask one of his eight teenage wives?
Why is it interesting that only girls attended a lunchtime talk at an all-girls school? Seems pretty mundane to me.
I didn't expect it to take long for Charley Johnson's hired goons to create accounts on this website to start addressing any comments relating to his sinister mission, and lo and behold...

I imagine 'Andy40' was one of the 5 or 6 goons in suits and shades who filmed me doing my shopping all day yesterday. Then spent all night playing music at full volume through my letterbox. I will NOT be broken.
Ha ha ha, you just don't like the fact that someone pointed out how STUPID you are for questioning why the audience was only made up of girls in an ALL-GIRLS school! Brilliant.

The SURGEON says...
8:47pm Sun 25 Mar 12

u5r23 wrote:
The SURGEON wrote:
andy40 wrote:
The SURGEON wrote:
This seems an excellent idea - let a proponent of mind control from Utah (AKA 'nutjob central') just waltz into our schools and start bribing impressionable young girls with free bracelets. Interesting that only girls attended this brainwashing session - I wonder if that was written into the contract. Perhaps someone could ask one of his eight teenage wives?
Why is it interesting that only girls attended a lunchtime talk at an all-girls school? Seems pretty mundane to me.
I didn't expect it to take long for Charley Johnson's hired goons to create accounts on this website to start addressing any comments relating to his sinister mission, and lo and behold...

I imagine 'Andy40' was one of the 5 or 6 goons in suits and shades who filmed me doing my shopping all day yesterday. Then spent all night playing music at full volume through my letterbox. I will NOT be broken.
Ha ha ha, you just don't like the fact that someone pointed out how STUPID you are for questioning why the audience was only made up of girls in an ALL-GIRLS school! Brilliant.
Not at all. My earlier point referred to just how sinister it was that this fundamentalist targeted girls and ONLY girls with the promise of free bracelets. I imagine they will have a truckload of free 'karma sweets' ready for their next trip to Naphill & Walter's
Ash Primary School.

But I understand why you are desperately trying to draw attention away from these concerns, being just another of Johnson's hired goons. Terrifying.

Marmite XO says...
9:25pm Sun 25 Mar 12

The SURGEON wrote:
andy40 wrote:
The SURGEON wrote:
This seems an excellent idea - let a proponent of mind control from Utah (AKA 'nutjob central') just waltz into our schools and start bribing impressionable young girls with free bracelets. Interesting that only girls attended this brainwashing session - I wonder if that was written into the contract. Perhaps someone could ask one of his eight teenage wives?
Why is it interesting that only girls attended a lunchtime talk at an all-girls school? Seems pretty mundane to me.
I didn't expect it to take long for Charley Johnson's hired goons to create accounts on this website to start addressing any comments relating to his sinister mission, and lo and behold...

I imagine 'Andy40' was one of the 5 or 6 goons in suits and shades who filmed me doing my shopping all day yesterday. Then spent all night playing music at full volume through my letterbox. I will NOT be broken.
I was nearly hit by a car yesterday. I thought nothing of it at the time. But now I'm wondering if it had something to do with my first post.

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