Paul Ross talks about cinema etiquette

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ALMOST everyone at some point has been annoyed by a fellow cinema goer- whether it is eating their food too loudly, answering their phone or putting their feet on the seat. Cadmore End resident Paul Ross is championing the Empire Cinema's etiquette guide. The film critic who loves going to the cinema said it is about time people consider others while watching a film and remembers the time he saw one cinema goer mend a stool while sat watching a movie.

Paul Ross, who lives in Cadmore End, sees about eight films a week. Although not all at the cinema he has grown used to the annoyances of fellow cinema goers.

He loves the cinema and does film reviews for This Morning on ITV1.

Paul said: "There is nothing quite like that shared experience. You can watch something on the TV and no matter how good there is always the temptation to put in on pause and go and make a cup of tea."

But he said in the cinema it is completely different as you get totally absorbed in the film, unless of course there are distractions from other people. He said he thinks people forget there are other people in the screening, because it is dark.

He regularly goes to Empire in Cressex and said he still can't believe people leave their phones on.

He said: "I can remember the first time I heard it about 10 to 15 years ago. I though it was the fire alarm going off and then someone answered."

Paul said he is always amazed what people take to the cinema to eat, which they then chomp and slurp.

He said: "I was in the pictures about two years ago and I smelt something. A guy two rows in front of us was eating a container of Chow Mein with his fingers. "That smell isn't going to go away for the rest of the film.

"Years ago I was at the cinema and I got this weird smell and I thought what is that? It was a sort of glue. The guy at the end of the row had taken out two or three legs of wood and was repairing a stool.

"He squirted the glue on the legs, when he was convinced he was done he sat on it to press the wood into the glue."

He added: "My other no no and it is mainly women. Why do women take their shoes off in the cinema?"

He said even the most fragrant of ladies can have smelly feet. The etiquette guide has been released by Empire and says people should keep talking to a minimum, enjoy treats quietly, no PDA's, no mobile phones, to keep feet off chairs, don't disturb cinema goers by arriving late, don't remove shoes, no littering, no plot spoilers and sit in allocated seating.

But Paul added: "There are two noises everyone puts up with. Screaming in a horror film and laughing at a comedy.

"If you are at home you don't laugh in that uproarious way you do in the pictures."

And he said himself he is prepared to take a "ssssh" from other cinema goers as sometimes it is needed.

The star now lives in Cadmore End after moving from Bisham.

He presents The Breakfast Show with Gaby Roslin on BBC London 94.9FM so travels to London each day.

He said they loved their previous house but there wasn't any off road parking and they wanted a bigger garden.

Then they found a place in Cadmore End, which he said had a big garden and seemed perfect for them.

Paul said: "We effectively swapped houses. We came to look around this house and the owners were in the garden. "We said to the woman in the garden that we had ours on the market for six months and I said do you fancy a 14th century cottage in Bisham?

"They came over and looked at it. Consequently we found out the lady we bought if from- her husband had looked at out house before we moved in."

He said he likes living in the area as it is handy for London and is up the road from Empire cinema and Eden. Some of his favourite films are The Wild Bunch, Singing in the Rain, Godfather One and Two, Cabaret and The Exorcist.

And as Christmas nears what are his favourite festive films? It's A Wonderful Life, Tim Burton's The Nightmare Before Christmas and The Day They Gave Babies Away.

Paul Ross is championing the Empire Cinemas Etiquette Guide - a 10 point guide to considerate cinema conduct. For more information, visit www.empirecinemas.co.uk

Comments (9)

2:03pm Fri 23 Nov 12

Darren Hayday says...

I would say to Paul...go to Cineworld in Wycombe!

I used to go to the Empire and wouldn't go back now - the only time that I did was to watch the Artist because at the time it wasn’t showing @ Cineworld.

It was horrible and cramped at Empire.
They need to do a major refurbishment and a clean out at Empire – if you look at the dust and muck in the air grills in the toilets I can tell that they haven’t ever been cleaned since the 20 year that the cinema was first built!
I would say to Paul...go to Cineworld in Wycombe! I used to go to the Empire and wouldn't go back now - the only time that I did was to watch the Artist because at the time it wasn’t showing @ Cineworld. It was horrible and cramped at Empire. They need to do a major refurbishment and a clean out at Empire – if you look at the dust and muck in the air grills in the toilets I can tell that they haven’t ever been cleaned since the 20 year that the cinema was first built! Darren Hayday

2:05pm Fri 23 Nov 12

Marmite XO says...

I wish I could unread this article. I never had much of an opinion on Paul Ross, but now I think he is an unfunny, petty, chump.

I might start going to the Empire cinema to make as much noise as possible.
I wish I could unread this article. I never had much of an opinion on Paul Ross, but now I think he is an unfunny, petty, chump. I might start going to the Empire cinema to make as much noise as possible. Marmite XO

2:17pm Fri 23 Nov 12

dbanes says...

I agree. We'd been living in Australia until 2010 and cinema's there are generally more modern, clean and tidy and the people polite (and not eating meals, just cold snacks), the experience being as I remember it being here in the UK.

But one trip to the Cressex Empire soon after arriving back in the UK put us off ever going to the cinema again, especially when family told us it was 'a normal cinema experience now'!

When we walked into the lobby the place looked and smelt like a fast food hall, nowhere obvious to collect tickets and believe it or not no listings showing what was on!

When we got into the cinema the sounds and smells of people eating spoilt the movie to the extent that we haven't been back.

I think part of the problem is that the younger generation (yes I'm an old git at 52) see the cinema in a similar way to they do their living room, whereas older people used to dress up, eat first or after and generally make an evening of it.

Nowadays it seems cinemas are used much the same way as people would their living room, shoes off, feet up, grazing on food and drink.

Times have changed and I don't think Paul will change them back unless he wants to open a 'posh' cinema with his own rules, I'd be a customer for one but I'd say if you don't like the modern cinema experience then don't go, do what we do, fire up the iTunes on the iPad and plug it into your TV.
I agree. We'd been living in Australia until 2010 and cinema's there are generally more modern, clean and tidy and the people polite (and not eating meals, just cold snacks), the experience being as I remember it being here in the UK. But one trip to the Cressex Empire soon after arriving back in the UK put us off ever going to the cinema again, especially when family told us it was 'a normal cinema experience now'! When we walked into the lobby the place looked and smelt like a fast food hall, nowhere obvious to collect tickets and believe it or not no listings showing what was on! When we got into the cinema the sounds and smells of people eating spoilt the movie to the extent that we haven't been back. I think part of the problem is that the younger generation (yes I'm an old git at 52) see the cinema in a similar way to they do their living room, whereas older people used to dress up, eat first or after and generally make an evening of it. Nowadays it seems cinemas are used much the same way as people would their living room, shoes off, feet up, grazing on food and drink. Times have changed and I don't think Paul will change them back unless he wants to open a 'posh' cinema with his own rules, I'd be a customer for one but I'd say if you don't like the modern cinema experience then don't go, do what we do, fire up the iTunes on the iPad and plug it into your TV. dbanes

2:43pm Fri 23 Nov 12

pastyboy says...

I certainly don't think this behaviour is restricted to just the cinema. It reflects the true society of this country as a whole. Selfish, greedy, poor manners and a general lack of empathy of others around them. Welcome to the UK!
I certainly don't think this behaviour is restricted to just the cinema. It reflects the true society of this country as a whole. Selfish, greedy, poor manners and a general lack of empathy of others around them. Welcome to the UK! pastyboy

3:29pm Fri 23 Nov 12

miccles says...

One big advantage with Cressex, is the free parking, which is a yes for me.
One big advantage with Cressex, is the free parking, which is a yes for me. miccles

10:54pm Fri 23 Nov 12

Stand up for England says...

pastyboy wrote:
I certainly don't think this behaviour is restricted to just the cinema. It reflects the true society of this country as a whole. Selfish, greedy, poor manners and a general lack of empathy of others around them. Welcome to the UK!
sadly, you are so right. There is no respect for anyone or anything.
[quote][p][bold]pastyboy[/bold] wrote: I certainly don't think this behaviour is restricted to just the cinema. It reflects the true society of this country as a whole. Selfish, greedy, poor manners and a general lack of empathy of others around them. Welcome to the UK![/p][/quote]sadly, you are so right. There is no respect for anyone or anything. Stand up for England

9:47am Sat 24 Nov 12

dbanes says...

Having just returned from living and working in Australia and the USA, and travelling around Asia I think the respect and empathy issue is a global one amongst 'younger' people and I think it's us the older generation that have inadvertently created the problem.

I have a fairly solid belief that those of us born in the 60's and 70's created a prosperous world to live in and took a lot for granted. We created a world where our children thought easy living, plentiful energy and food supplies were normal and jobs were easy to come by.

Unfortunately the world changed, war returned, fuel & food prices went up, technology reduced the availability of work and us older people have lived longer and stayed in the work force for longer.

Couple this with failing political systems, banking/financial services greed and cuts in education and health budgets and I can see why the younger generations are disillusioned.

We can't just blame peoples attitudes, we the elders of society need to reshape it and help younger people through tough times and to understand their place now and in the future.
Having just returned from living and working in Australia and the USA, and travelling around Asia I think the respect and empathy issue is a global one amongst 'younger' people and I think it's us the older generation that have inadvertently created the problem. I have a fairly solid belief that those of us born in the 60's and 70's created a prosperous world to live in and took a lot for granted. We created a world where our children thought easy living, plentiful energy and food supplies were normal and jobs were easy to come by. Unfortunately the world changed, war returned, fuel & food prices went up, technology reduced the availability of work and us older people have lived longer and stayed in the work force for longer. Couple this with failing political systems, banking/financial services greed and cuts in education and health budgets and I can see why the younger generations are disillusioned. We can't just blame peoples attitudes, we the elders of society need to reshape it and help younger people through tough times and to understand their place now and in the future. dbanes

11:52am Sat 24 Nov 12

Voyeur says...

Bring back the standing up for the National Anthem at the beginning of the show. A bit of respect for authority would go a long way. :-)
Bring back the standing up for the National Anthem at the beginning of the show. A bit of respect for authority would go a long way. :-) Voyeur

9:12am Mon 26 Nov 12

Ivor'sbestfriend says...

Who's Paul Ross?

https://www.youtube.
com/watch?v=4HX--4ls
iTM
Who's Paul Ross? https://www.youtube. com/watch?v=4HX--4ls iTM Ivor'sbestfriend

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