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The perfect wife and mother, Rebecca runs a home, a village magazine and is working on her novel. She does not visit the gym or jog but is in amazingly good shape. She enjoys photography, playing the piano and arguing with the TV. She lives in Amersham with her husband and youngest child (aged nine). Her eldest, now 26, lives and works in Buckinghamshire.
9:36am Wednesday 4th May 2011
It’s been days now. What more can there be to say about it? It’s inflammatory and insensitive to keep repeating this story.
And how can any civilised person dance in the streets to celebrate the death of someone else?
Last night some uniformed official (perhaps even an educated man) referred to bin Laden as a monster.
There are monstrous sides to us all. To speak of an individual in this way feels reminiscent of the way Hitler would have referred to the Jews.
But we seem to swallow this reporting whole and let it sit in our guts poisoning us.
He had a family. He had parents. Can he not have been a human?
To have footage of the blood-stained room where he died and where his wife was hurt is monstrous. I don’t want to see it. Does anyone?
A short blog because there’s nothing else to say. I hope the news channels will follow suit.
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NicM
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12:30pm Wed 4 May 11
Rebecca Leon
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1:21pm Wed 4 May 11
J B Blackett
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1:40pm Wed 4 May 11
Rebecca Leon
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4:46pm Wed 4 May 11
demoness
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7:32pm Wed 4 May 11
NicM
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9:53pm Wed 4 May 11
demoness
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9:57pm Wed 4 May 11
NicM wrote:I agree with you to a point Nic BUT perhaps I have a more simplistic view.
But D these are terrorist acts caused by groups rather than acts by any particular government. The lessons of Iraq and Afghanistan show us that we are not going to win 'hearts and minds'. The best we can hope for is that we kill more of theirs than they kill of ours.
Libya demonstrates that even dictators are supported by a sizeable proportion of the population and, even given the chance, they opt not to get rid of them.
At what point do we decide not to be the policemen of the world, and in the process inflame the Middle and Far East? When we have had a generation of young men killed or bankrupted ourselves?
Our best hope is to concentrate on the security and intelligence in our country.
NicM
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10:49pm Wed 4 May 11
demoness wrote:But riding into Iraq and Afghanistan like some kind of avenging angels was not the only option. What action got rid of Bin Laden? Wars that have killed hundreds of young men and women? No intelligence and a targeted attack with little risk to the attackers.
NicM wrote:I agree with you to a point Nic BUT perhaps I have a more simplistic view.
But D these are terrorist acts caused by groups rather than acts by any particular government. The lessons of Iraq and Afghanistan show us that we are not going to win 'hearts and minds'. The best we can hope for is that we kill more of theirs than they kill of ours.
Libya demonstrates that even dictators are supported by a sizeable proportion of the population and, even given the chance, they opt not to get rid of them.
At what point do we decide not to be the policemen of the world, and in the process inflame the Middle and Far East? When we have had a generation of young men killed or bankrupted ourselves?
Our best hope is to concentrate on the security and intelligence in our country.
If someone attacks us, what the heck are we supposed to do?
I think the so called war on terror is an abomination but at the same time not to do anything is also not an option IMO.
demoness
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7:05am Thu 5 May 11
NicM wrote:Oh you are so right there and I remember at the time people saying that it would be almost impossible to find anyone in Afghanistan because of the terrain of the place.
demoness wrote:But riding into Iraq and Afghanistan like some kind of avenging angels was not the only option. What action got rid of Bin Laden? Wars that have killed hundreds of young men and women? No intelligence and a targeted attack with little risk to the attackers.
NicM wrote:I agree with you to a point Nic BUT perhaps I have a more simplistic view.
But D these are terrorist acts caused by groups rather than acts by any particular government. The lessons of Iraq and Afghanistan show us that we are not going to win 'hearts and minds'. The best we can hope for is that we kill more of theirs than they kill of ours.
Libya demonstrates that even dictators are supported by a sizeable proportion of the population and, even given the chance, they opt not to get rid of them.
At what point do we decide not to be the policemen of the world, and in the process inflame the Middle and Far East? When we have had a generation of young men killed or bankrupted ourselves?
Our best hope is to concentrate on the security and intelligence in our country.
If someone attacks us, what the heck are we supposed to do?
I think the so called war on terror is an abomination but at the same time not to do anything is also not an option IMO.
We will never win the 'War on Terror' as by pursuing it we will create a terrorist for every one we kill. All of history where terrorist or guerilla activity has taken place from World War II, Israel, Afghanistan (Russia and us), Ireland etc. shows that force does not solve the issue.
Our blind following of the American lead just means that we are targeted with the same brush and 'open game'.
NicM
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7:12am Thu 5 May 11
tom.marlow2
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8:58am Thu 5 May 11
Rebecca Leon
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10:49am Thu 5 May 11
NicM
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12:41pm Thu 5 May 11
NicM
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12:46pm Thu 5 May 11
tom.marlow2
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2:56pm Thu 5 May 11
NicM wrote:Well, I think its always been like that. The only way is to not sell arms to anyone, then at least you reduce the risk of being hoist by your own petard, even if you get your neighbours exocet up your backside.
And which of the world's dictators were our one time friends Tom? Look at Saddam. We saw that by arming him we could help him sort out Iran. Well that one came back to bite us! Look at Cameron trawling around the Middle East accompanied by several arms manufacturers. We don't seem to be doing a lot of joined up thinking!
Rebecca Leon
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5:57pm Thu 5 May 11
demoness
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6:53am Fri 6 May 11
tom.marlow2
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9:35am Fri 6 May 11
demoness wrote:I agree with you D that it should never be forgotten. Uncomfortable as it may be we need to be reminded how utterly appallingly people behave from time to time.
The crux of the matter is, IMO American pride. I do not think there has ever been such a huge attack actually in their country before - the last comparable one was Pearl Harbour. So they were angry,outraged and wanted to be seen to be doing something quickly, Hence the war. Quite what the UK's excuse was, I don't know - apart from the whole "special relationship" thing. BUT whether we agree with the method of killing or not, the fact is Bin Laden was responsible for a lot of innocent people's deaths too who also would have been unarmed. So I cannot agree with your point Rebecca - Bin Laden really does not deserve sympathy. As for your comments about being allowed to move on from 9/11..... That was a devastating event that should never be forgotten.It isn't something that should ever be swept under the carpet. It is very easy for us, sitting in the comfort of our own homes to theorise or take the moral highground but how would any of us have felt had we lost loved ones on that day or the 7th July in London?
Rebecca Leon
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11:52am Fri 6 May 11
NicM
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1:28pm Fri 6 May 11
Rebecca Leon
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5:35pm Fri 6 May 11
J B Blackett
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7:07pm Fri 6 May 11
demoness the second
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6:40am Sat 7 May 11
NicM wrote:I don't think I was suggesting for one moment that we should forget the innocent civilians that have died in Iraq or Afghanistan and I also do not think that it is a competition as to who has lost the most life.
I don't think we should forget 9/11. However, we should also remember that the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan has killed innocent civilians at a rate of at least 100 for every person killed in the Twin Towers. Those people had families that are mourning their deaths as much as the relatives of the victims in the West have done. Take the moral high ground? The morals of the West are not exactly high on this one. And it is not the relatives of those that have died that are dancing in the streets.
NicM
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7:32am Sat 7 May 11
demoness the second wrote:Absolutely D II, but I don't think many people, especially from the USA, think that. And that goes back to the point of the original blog. Was Osama's life not precious? I do think we rank the importance of people's lives.
NicM wrote:I don't think I was suggesting for one moment that we should forget the innocent civilians that have died in Iraq or Afghanistan and I also do not think that it is a competition as to who has lost the most life.
I don't think we should forget 9/11. However, we should also remember that the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan has killed innocent civilians at a rate of at least 100 for every person killed in the Twin Towers. Those people had families that are mourning their deaths as much as the relatives of the victims in the West have done. Take the moral high ground? The morals of the West are not exactly high on this one. And it is not the relatives of those that have died that are dancing in the streets.
Life is precious no matter whose life it is.
demoness the second
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7:40am Sat 7 May 11
NicM wrote:Osama's life may well be precious to him and his family. What a shame he did not hold other lives in the same regard.
demoness the second wrote:Absolutely D II, but I don't think many people, especially from the USA, think that. And that goes back to the point of the original blog. Was Osama's life not precious? I do think we rank the importance of people's lives.
NicM wrote:I don't think I was suggesting for one moment that we should forget the innocent civilians that have died in Iraq or Afghanistan and I also do not think that it is a competition as to who has lost the most life.
I don't think we should forget 9/11. However, we should also remember that the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan has killed innocent civilians at a rate of at least 100 for every person killed in the Twin Towers. Those people had families that are mourning their deaths as much as the relatives of the victims in the West have done. Take the moral high ground? The morals of the West are not exactly high on this one. And it is not the relatives of those that have died that are dancing in the streets.
Life is precious no matter whose life it is.
Rebecca Leon
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3:44pm Sun 8 May 11
NicM
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4:35pm Sun 8 May 11
demoness the second
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5:08pm Sun 8 May 11
NicM wrote:I don't think it is for one minute Nic.
D I am not being provocative over this, but in the interests of debate, whose lives are 'innocent'? The women and children we (the coalition) have killed in iraq and Afghanistan.
Yes, OBL would probably have killed the American President if he could. And no doubt if he had there would be people dancing in the streets across the Middle East and other Islamist countries, on the basis that we have killed their innocents and we are seen to be the aggressors, not OBL.
We need to remember that and not see it as some kind of demonstration of Islam being a violent religion.
The perfect wife and mother, Rebecca runs a home, a bad temper and is working on her novel. She enjoys photography, playing the piano and likes almost anything that's out of fashion and uncool. She lives in Amersham with her husband and youngest child (aged ten). Her eldest, now 27, lives and works in Buckinghamshire.
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