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The perfect wife and mother, Rebecca runs a home, a village magazine and is working on her novel. She does not visit the gym or jog but is in amazingly good shape. She enjoys photography, playing the piano and arguing with the TV. She lives in Amersham with her husband and youngest child (aged nine). Her eldest, now 26, lives and works in Buckinghamshire.
11:00am Thursday 29th September 2011
It was on a shopping hour in Tesco.
By the child’s clothing section is a large picture of a child’s face. To me, the child has the beginning of jowls – a slightly overweight look. At about 18 months.
Now while chubby babies are often considered sweet, over-chubby ones aren’t.
A parent looking at this image might think, ‘Aww, looks just like my little one – my three stone toddler.’ Is this good?
What the media portrays does influence us. We seem to think if it’s on a poster/on TV/in a magazine, it’s OK. It’s been socially/psychologically tested and passed or something like that.
So while the skinny (female adult) model has long been thought of as damaging, the overweight-looking child is used as a model for ‘normal child’ in Tesco: ergo, this is what a child should look like. Well, thank goodness mine didn’t.
And as I walk around, there are babies, yes babies in pushchairs being silenced by chocolate and packets of crisps.
As much as skinny models can give us women a sense of failure, surely they serve their purpose in getting some people to ‘think thin’.
It’s not the size we’re aiming for, but the overall look of being fit and healthy. And surely whichever study/professional opinion you use, being overweight and barely able to complete your everyday tasks is not something to recommend.
We know images are manipulated but by portraying people with strong looking bodies, good skin, hair and teeth, without excess fat, they are also saying, ‘This is a good example’.
If fashion and the media were full of overweight people would that make people who needed to lose weight (for health reasons) complacent?
No matter what body shape/trend is promoted, we will feel undermined if we don’t have it.
I just think we could change our feeling of being insulted by skinny models to one of being shown a good example by them. And that too means not taking them too seriously.
Skinny women are one thing; fat babies are another and it speaks of getting diet wrong from the very start. It has many undertones – of neglect, dietary ignorance and misconceptions. Which going by the news, should cause us outrage. More than a grown up who’s been ‘improved’ on a computer programme.
That to me suggests unsound ethics and a wish to turn our backs on the issue of diet and health where it has a lifelong impact (on our children) in favour of a mild rebellion against slim women wearing clothes we can’t.
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Comments(21)
NicM
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1:08pm Thu 29 Sep 11
KentP
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1:41pm Thu 29 Sep 11
demoness the second
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9:37pm Thu 29 Sep 11
KentP
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10:22pm Thu 29 Sep 11
demoness the second wrote:interesting stats D, I did not know that!
No - skinny models are not okay. Skinny models are unhealthy.
They do not serve any purpose but to make young girls feel inadequate and try to lose weight.
A size 10-12 is perfectly fine.
Effects of undernutrition....
Suppressed immune system which increases the risk of infection.
Prolonged wound healing.
Fatique - where is all the energy you speak of ?
Depression.
Hair becomes lank and lifeless, skin is dry. Mucus membranes in the mouth are affected and the person is more likely to develop mouth ulcers.
If you do not eat enough, your body goes into starvation mode. It's energy requirement's are less, and it almost thinks it is hibernating. So the person is not hungry. They then become sleepy, depressed and more prone to infection. Periods in women stop, sperm count in men drops.
The cost of malnutrition to the NHS is 13 billion ( NPSA 2005).
1 in 3 people admitted to hospitals are malnourished.(BAPEN 2010)
Yes obesity is a problem. But so is undernutrition and quite frankly this is a very ill researched blog.
Skinny women are also the result of appalling diet Rebecca.
HonkHonk
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10:53pm Thu 29 Sep 11
NicM
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12:51pm Fri 30 Sep 11
Trip
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1:55pm Fri 30 Sep 11
s6blr
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11:45am Sat 1 Oct 11
Rebecca Leon
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11:05am Sun 2 Oct 11
demoness the second
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3:22pm Sun 2 Oct 11
Rebecca Leon
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2:07pm Mon 3 Oct 11
Iris
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3:00pm Mon 3 Oct 11
Iris
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3:05pm Mon 3 Oct 11
demoness the second wrote:Just to add to this; you can be underweight and well-nourished, just as you can appear healthy and be malnurished. Not that this sheds any light on the rambling article!
I am a little worried that someone may think that you are Ivor Rebecca.
Which is really very funny.
Not for you though ;)
But to come back to your original point. Most models I would imagine have a BMI of less than 18.5. That is borderline malnutrition.
I am very concerned ( and I am not being flip) that you really think that these very skinny models are healthy.
This link is as far back as 2000 but it is very pertinent.
http://news.bbc.co.u
k/1/hi/769290.stm
And then there is this sad case of a model who died of complications due to malnutrition
http://www.nytimes.c
om/2006/11/20/world/
americas/20iht-model
s.3604439.html
As I said - a very ill researched blog. Being too thin is not good - it is not something to encourage and it is as bad as being too fat.
Rebecca Leon
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6:57pm Mon 3 Oct 11
demoness the second
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9:33pm Mon 3 Oct 11
Iris wrote:That of course is spot on. An obese person can actually show clinical signs of malnutrition if they have been ill and lost too much weight very quickly.
demoness the second wrote:Just to add to this; you can be underweight and well-nourished, just as you can appear healthy and be malnurished. Not that this sheds any light on the rambling article!
I am a little worried that someone may think that you are Ivor Rebecca.
Which is really very funny.
Not for you though ;)
But to come back to your original point. Most models I would imagine have a BMI of less than 18.5. That is borderline malnutrition.
I am very concerned ( and I am not being flip) that you really think that these very skinny models are healthy.
This link is as far back as 2000 but it is very pertinent.
http://news.bbc.co.u
k/1/hi/769290.stm
And then there is this sad case of a model who died of complications due to malnutrition
http://www.nytimes.c
om/2006/11/20/world/
americas/20iht-model
s.3604439.html
As I said - a very ill researched blog. Being too thin is not good - it is not something to encourage and it is as bad as being too fat.
demoness the second
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9:37pm Mon 3 Oct 11
JamWheel
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11:13am Tue 4 Oct 11
Rebecca Leon
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10:10am Thu 6 Oct 11
demoness the second
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8:44pm Thu 6 Oct 11
Rebecca Leon
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9:06am Fri 7 Oct 11
The perfect wife and mother, Rebecca runs a home, a bad temper and is working on her novel. She enjoys photography, playing the piano and likes almost anything that's out of fashion and uncool. She lives in Amersham with her husband and youngest child (aged ten). Her eldest, now 27, lives and works in Buckinghamshire.
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Trip says...
11:31am Thu 29 Sep 11
Fat children are a difficult one though, some kids are fat until puberty, then they grow and gain a healthier looking figure, and some just get fatter.